Individual Coaching 

Our coaching offerings are intentionally gendered. We know this is taboo… and we do it anyway! We understand the very important cultural trend of de-gendering our society and support it in many ways. We, however, believe that in the crucible of actual couples (whether straight or gay) this takes away much of our complementary strengths––and thereby the ability to serve our partners deeply. We trust most of our clients will find our titles inspirational. We believe you deserve uncompromising honesty! PLEASE READ WITHIN THE CONTEXT OF YOUR POLARITY ESSENCE, GENDER AND SEXUAL ORIENTATIONS. Happy Couples values a deep honoring of individual traits and choices. Political correctness… not so much!

 

Bloom Her Open!

Coaching for men who want more feminine flow and radiance from their partner

Learn to become a stronger and more present man in order to better serve your feminine partner in all her beauty, complexity, relational expectations, and intimate needs. She will return the appreciation hundredfold!


Man Him Up!

Coaching for women who want more masculine presence from their partner

It is no secret most relationship growth is initiated by women. But why are men so resistant? Learn to invite your masculine partner in a way that feels invigorating to him… and watch the difference!

 

"Working with Valdo made me aware of the multiple layers required to shift both my thought process and behaviors. And while there were things to focus on during each coaching session, the practice and results came about in real life. Having the ability to come back and evaluate what "worked" and what did not was helpful in creating change. One thing I found was how stuck I could be in my own story. Valdo has an extraordinary ability to see through my excuses and call bullshit on my limiting factors. Becoming the man I need to be for myself and my wife starts with me, my decisions and my accountability. Those are things that are hard to come by if you didn't have a strong father or mentor. Having Valdo as a coach enabled me to begin catching up in the areas that matter most. "

— Paul, Houston TX