“Relationships Require a Lot of Work”
WHAT IF
You could lighten up some of that burden and transform it into a curious exploration?
WHAT IF
You could “lube” (pun intended) some of the areas of your relationship that have been increasingly squeaky over time by learning to be less serious and more playful about them?
WHAT IF
Play could transform an OK couple experience to a great one, filled with joy, curiosity and aliveness?
We Are Not
Therapists
We are NOT therapists – We encourage you to continue therapy in parallel to our coaching sessions.
Marriage Counselors
We are NOT marriage counselors – We will gladly work with yours, either directly or indirectly.
Sex or Intimacy Coaches
We are NOT sex or intimacy coaches – Sex is only one of the many elements we explore.
Fixers
We are NOT fixers – Not all couples are savable or worth saving. Our goal is not to fix, but to enliven relationships.
We are…
COUPLES HAPPINESS COACHES!
We are present- and future-oriented! We don’t shy away from problems, history or trauma. We simply do not try to solve them in the past, as most therapists do. We focus on creating alternate solutions towards a more alive present and happier times to come.
We are appreciative! By creating new and more playful ways of relating, we increase our ability to meet each other in ways that support both, we trigger each other less and less, we loosen old patterns that tend to build up resentment, and we are able to see more and more the constructive intent of our partner.
We firmly believe happiness is the purpose of our human lives. And that a key element of happiness is freedom from suffering. Freedom doesn’t mean eradication of suffering — it means freedom from it! Your partner may still behave the same way, but that will affect you less. Not because you don’t care, but because focusing on a more positive future brings freedom to you and healing to your relationship.
Our Ideal Clients
Though it may sound strange (as we are selling relationship happiness!): our ideal clients are couples who are not seeking happiness as a direct result of coaching sessions — but awareness. Life is infinitely simpler being single… but not as full… and it is that richness of interaction-friction-joyful moments-conflicts-regrets-lovemaking-apologies-repairs that give rise to the possibility to be more aware and alive.
They are functional adults who have invested significant time, resources, and creativity in personal development and in their relationship. And they know that it is the growing and healing together that brings the utmost happiness (we do sell relationship happiness after all!)
Quiz
Curious about where you are at in our unscientific unvalidated (but juicy!) spectrum?
HOW WE WORK
Get to Know Your Landscape
At first, we take the time to get to know your landscape with what is working and what is not working in your relationship. We acknowledge it, analyze it and set it aside.
Invite You in Playful Activities
We then invite you in short playful activities (both in real time during coaching sessions and in-between coaching sessions), typically fully dressed (for sure during coaching sessions!). We afterwards guide you to reflect on what happened during the activity, and what you learned from it, and what you intend to do (pay attention to, show up…) differently with your partner.
Learning to Play & Be Together
Learning to play as a couple opens the heart to new ways of being together, diminishes the impact of daily struggles, lessens the need to blame others for one’s suffering, and strengthens relationship confidence.
What We Offer
We have created a new way of helping relationships thrive.
We are offering couples coaching sessions to couples that are:
Daring enough to engage in a novel approach
Adventurous enough to engage in something other than just talking about problems
Connected enough with each other to seek a positive way of creating deeper intimate harmony and a more fulfilling relationship
Thank you for joining us on this adventure. Explore our site and open a world of possibilities for you and your partner!
I want to know more about what you offer!
Game Night!
Remember when you were first in love with your partner? There was beauty everywhere in the world. You were connected and daring. You were both free and exploratory. You could talk hours on end… Years later, you still love your partner dearly. No questions about that! But… Moments of spontaneous and joyful connection… are occasional, at best.
What would it be like if you could rekindle that spirit of adventure? If you and your mate could access the passion and freedom to risk again?
Game Night! is our offer to reclaim that magic.
Game Night! is a combination of play activities and relationship development that involves six couples getting together for six three-hour game sessions, every other week.
Come play with us and prepare for sparks to fly again!
